Understanding Children's Fears
The Little Monsters Within Our Children: Understanding Their Fears
Fears, childhood companions. Who wasn't afraid of the dark or monsters as a child? Fears are an integral part of a child's development. These fears evolve with age and are often linked to their overflowing imagination. Let's discover together the main fears that can arise in toddlers and how to help them overcome their fears.
Baby is scared!
Around 8 months, babies begin to develop an awareness of their surroundings and their separation from their parents. This is why it is not uncommon to see the appearance of fear of strangers and separation anxiety. Loud noises can also frighten them, as their senses are still developing.
Childhood fears: Children are often afraid of what they do not understand. Monsters, fantasy characters, the wardrobe and the dark can become real sources of anxiety.
Understanding their fears:
To help your child, it is important to understand where his fears come from. Talk to him about them, listen carefully and try to put yourself in his shoes.
Simple tips to help them:
Reassure and support them: Children need to feel safe. Reassure them, show them that you are there for them and offer them solutions adapted to their age.
The Monster Book: Encourage your child to draw his fears. This will help him express and tame them. For example, you can "cage the monster" together.
The superhero of the night: Give him a superhero-shaped night light to protect him while he sleeps.
The Explorer Flashlight: To overcome the fear of the dark, a flashlight can become a magical tool to explore the dark corners of the room.
Reassuring rituals: Establishing bedtime rituals (story, cuddles), and checking dark corners together can help your child feel safe.
Avoid minimizing their fears: Even if you find their fears irrational, it is important to take them seriously.
Stay calm and reassuring: Your attitude is essential in helping your child overcome his fears.